So I never really talk about me in personal romantic kinda way (not much to say)more in an ambitious what I want out of life kinda way if that even makes sense lol
What I mean by that is I have been filling my life with career plans, creative blog plans and travel plans for the future.That I have not really made any love plans lol Not that one can ever plan that sort of thing but I have been single for about 3 years now and learnt so much about me and life and I am fairly content right now. I don’t really think too much about my previous relationships but my friends always come to me for relationship advice.
I don’t think I am any sort of Love Guru maybe I just give real good advice. I think I have a mastered the art of seeing things bigger than the situation at hand that it helps me give real, honest good advice. It is also way easier to give advice than to actually practice it. I often think to myself if I should ever get into a relationship soon I should learn how to practice what i preach.
I just don’t get it, you were two individual people when you started liking each other stay those people! Don’t change for each other grow together and learn to compromise, communicate and trust each other. This is the part where all those in a relationship shout at me and say get into a relationship then tell me how easy that is.Easier said than done I get that.
Firstly in my opinion (I am no expert I just observe) If you need to change for someone and your own friends don’t recognize you, you doing something wrong. You need to be respected for who you are and remind yourself that he or she liked you for you in the beginning nobody should change but rather grow as individuals together.
I truly believe that if you find a partner that inspires you to become a better version of yourself he or she is a keeper! In today’s society we get off on quick fixes and cheap thrills and leave empty you never going to be fulfilled in a relationship if you not a whole person without a partner and looking for someone to complete you is a lot of Bull if you ask me. I am a realist see things like it is minus all the smooth talk I think I have just learnt to smarten up through the years. Grew up from a naive little girl to a tough girl boys are probably scared of lol
It might sound like I am just another girl talking to you with a broken heart and never got over it. Reality check, I am completely fine with who I am and who I am striving to be and I choose not to settle! I just wished more people knew what they want out of a partner and what they worth. Instead of just settling and getting sucked into a world they think they want. Be you 100% of the time and same for your partner most importantly if you want to be with each other trust each other!
Hope all of you inlove are doing great nothing is ever easy but you know it will be worth it when you look back and think of how you have grown together through the good and the bad times.
Like I said I am no expert in any love matters. so if you disagree or agree with my view please let me know in the comments. I am always interested to find out what other people’s love views are.
2 thoughts on “I am No Relationship Guru”
Thals, you deserve an Oscar for this blog you just wrote. Some people spend a lifetime acquiring the wisdom you have at your tender age. I am super proud of you having seen you grow up into this confident, wise and amazing young woman. Having been there and done that in my short lifetime, I know exactly what you are talking about and I agree 100% with what you’ve said.Your head is definately in the right place. Keep on being you.
Thank you, so much I really appreciate your comment and reading my rambles. I am no where close to an expert on anything that I write about. I just want to inspire and share my view on the world with the world. I am very glad you like this post many people struggle with life and especially with love matters and I truly wish they can know their worth and not be defined by a partner.